What is Complex PTSD?
The concept was first introduced by psychiatrist Dr. Judith Herman in the 1990s. Through her work, she observed that many individuals who had experienced long-term trauma — such as childhood neglect, relational trauma, or ongoing emotional harm — did not fully fit within the framework of traditional PTSD.
Rather than being shaped by a single overwhelming event, Complex PTSD reflects the effects of cumulative experiences over time. These experiences may not always appear dramatic from the outside. Yet when they occur repeatedly, they can leave a deep imprint on the nervous system and inner world.
Over time, this can influence three core areas of experience:
- Emotional regulation
- Sense of self and self-worth
- Capacity for connection, trust, and safety in relationships
Complex PTSD is therefore not only about what happened in the past — it is about how those experiences continue to live in the body, emotions, and relational patterns.
The Inner Experience of Complex PTSD
At times, seemingly small situations can trigger intense feelings such as anxiety, shame, or self-blame. At other moments, there may be a sense of numbness or disconnection — as if one is no longer fully in contact with their own emotions or body.
In relationships, it is common to experience a tension between a deep longing for connection and a simultaneous fear of being hurt. There may also be an inner voice that is highly self-critical, or a persistent sense of “not being enough,” even when there is no clear reason for it.
These patterns are often misunderstood as personality traits. But in many cases, they are adaptive responses — ways the nervous system learned to cope in earlier environments.
Why Complex Trauma Often Shows Up in Relationships
As a result, small relational moments — a shift in tone, a pause in communication, an unanswered message, can evoke strong emotional responses. This does not necessarily mean something is wrong in the present relationship. Rather, it reflects the nervous system responding to unfinished experiences from the past.
The Possibility of Healing
Trauma research increasingly shows that the nervous system is capable of change. When new experiences of safety, support, and regulation are introduced. gradually and at a pace the system can integrate — the body and mind begin to reorganize.
Healing is rarely fast or forceful. More often, it unfolds gently, through consistent, safe, and attuned experiences over time.
In My Work
My approach integrates Somatic Experiencing (SE) and Hypnotherapy, supporting the process in a gentle and effective way. Somatic Experiencing focuses on nervous system regulation and body awareness, allowing the body to slowly release accumulated survival responses.
Hypnotherapy supports access to subconscious layers of experience, where underlying emotional patterns and beliefs can be explored and transformed in a state of deep relaxation. When these approaches are combined, the work moves beyond intellectual understanding.
It becomes a process of rebuilding a felt sense of safety, stability, and inner coherence.
Reframing Your Experience
When we begin to relate to our experience with greater understanding and less self-judgment, something begins to shift.
And often, that is where healing begins.
